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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 20.06.2025 06:53

How does one succeed in life?

That's it for today.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Ask yourself:

Making more friends is a goal.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Procrastinates a lot.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Why do men cheat on their wives with someone extremely unattractive?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

As a guy, how do you know you if you are considered attractive?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Does not procrastinate.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What I need from you?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Do not set goals—set systems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.